Posted by: maggiecurrie52 on: January 14, 2012
My view of my self worth has been very low recently. I hadn’t actually realised it until today when I read the following message I received this morning from Abraham:
‘Worthiness, in very simple terms, means I have found a way to let the Energy reach me, the Energy that is natural, reach me. Worthiness, or unworthiness, is something that is pronounced upon you by you. You are the only one that can deem yourself worthy or unworthy. You are the only one who can love yourself into a state of allowing, or hate yourself in a state of disallowing. There is not something wrong with you, nor is there something wrong with one who is not loving you. You are all just, in the moment, practicing the art of not allowing, or the art of resisting.’
I was indeed practising the art of not allowing – not allowing myself to receive the abundance that I so truly deserve. Somehow I had become blocked and was feeling that I was not at all worthy. My skills were of no use to anyone and therefore nobody new would be coming to me for coaching.
Fortunately, this missive from Abraham resonated with me on many levels. It made me remember just how self destructive negative thinking can be. I know this is true, but I am just as liable to negative thoughts as anyone else, although I do endeavour to keep thinking positively as it benefits me, and my clients, so much more.
I thought about this for a little while and it came to me that I have not been giving myself the recognition that I so richly deserve. I have been hiding my light under a bushel and that is now going to stop.
I work with a fabulous group of coaches in YOU University who love and support me, teach and coach me, learn from me and are coached by me. I have so much to offer my current and potential clients and my passion is in coaching people to become who they really are.
I am collaborating with my fellow coach Thabi Zikalala who lives in South Africa. Together we are in the process of creating a course to be held over 6 weeks to help people who have been drug addicts and want rehabilitation. Thabi will be presenting the course in South Africa and my contribution is helping to design the course and may include video coaching/teaching in the future.
With modern technology anyone in the world can access coaching via Skype, phone, instant messaging and so many other ways.
My own self worth has increased dramatically since I began writing this blog and will continue to do so, especially as I remind myself of all my successes. That doesn’t mean I have a big head, I don’t, I know my own self worth and I am proud of it. I am worthy and I shall not be wasting my time or energy on negativity any longer.
If anything I have written resonates with you, I would love to hear from you. And if you think I can help you I would also love to hear from you. This year is definitely going to be magical.
Maggie Currie
YOU University Coach
Relationship YOU Coach
To reach me call +44 1983 759213 – email maggiecurrie@youuniversityonline.com – SKype: maggielifecoach
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January 18, 2012 at 7:02 am
It resonates with me. It is very easy for me to acknowldege other people’s worthiness not so easy regarding myself. I’ve noticed when something bad happens I have a tendency to take full responsibility for that, however in a successful situation I consider my contribution insignificant comparing to others’.
I determine to take full responsibility for my successes and recognise my worthiness.
Thanks Maggie for the article!
January 18, 2012 at 7:11 am
Thank you so much for taking the time to read my blog. I am so pleased to have resonated with you. Well done for taking responsibility for your successes. You are definitely worthy. I take some time to re-establish my self worth each week, it is an ongoing process. If I can help you in any way please just let me know.